Hi! Section #4 a bit late, cause I'm busy with my new creation, show you later. ^_^Section #4
The Emotion Coach
- Sees the world of negative emotions as an important arena for parenting.
- Values and respects the child's negative emotions as an opportunity for intimacy.
- Can tolerate spending time with sad, angry, or fearful child; does not become impatient with the emotion.
- Is aware of and values their own emotions.
- Is sensitive to the child's emotional states, even when they are subtle.
- Is not confused or anxious about the child's emotional expression; they're in control and knows what needs to be done.
- Does not poke fun or make light of the child's feelings.
- Does not say how the child should feel.
- Does not feel they have fix every problem for the child.
- Uses emotional moments as a time to
--> Listen to the child
--> Empathize with soothing words and affection
--> Help the child label the emotion he or she is feeling
--> Offer guidance on regulating emotions
--> Set limits and teach acceptable expression of emotions
--> Teach problem-solving skills
Effects On Children
- They learn to trust their feelings, regulate their emotions, and solve problems.
- They have high self-esteem
- They learn well and get along with others.
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