--Colourful Bracelet and Necklace--

Wow! I've spent a lot of time to finished this bracelet and necklace.

For me, it's looks special and I like it, so, just want to share with everybody who visit my blog. ^_^
Beside that, still can visit my shop.

--You Are My Only One...--

There was once, I saw a guy made a bracelet with wild flower and present it to a girl he loved...

Eventhough, the bracelet wasn't expenssive, what I saw on the girl face... was a face full of happiness... from heart...

Years later... I met the guy and the girl again. Married...

I still saw a happiness face from the girl he loved. She told me, the bracelet he made for her was his commitment to her... "You ARE my only ONE".

I was touched...I believe that the bracelet made from that wild flower, will lead people to true love and happiness... I do believe...

What do you think about this bracelet? ^_^

--Mini Pinky Flowers on Yellow Purse--

I have always love different colours handbag and purse.

When I went window shopping, I saw a group of young ladies happily walking pass me. All of them having different purses on their hands...

I started thinking if I can put some flowers on the purse, it's must be beautiful.

And here is this mini pinky flowers on yellow purse...

Pink? Majority girls like pink, included me, lovely..

Yellow? Because yellow is cheerful....

--Parenting Styles 04--

Hi! Section #4 a bit late, cause I'm busy with my new creation, show you later. ^_^

Section #4

The Emotion Coach

- Sees the world of negative emotions as an important arena for parenting.

- Values and respects the child's negative emotions as an opportunity for intimacy.

- Can tolerate spending time with sad, angry, or fearful child; does not become impatient with the emotion.

- Is aware of and values their own emotions.

- Is sensitive to the child's emotional states, even when they are subtle.

- Is not confused or anxious about the child's emotional expression; they're in control and knows what needs to be done.

- Does not poke fun or make light of the child's feelings.

- Does not say how the child should feel.

- Does not feel they have fix every problem for the child.

- Uses emotional moments as a time to

--> Listen to the child

--> Empathize with soothing words and affection

--> Help the child label the emotion he or she is feeling

--> Offer guidance on regulating emotions

--> Set limits and teach acceptable expression of emotions

--> Teach problem-solving skills

Effects On Children

- They learn to trust their feelings, regulate their emotions, and solve problems.

- They have high self-esteem

- They learn well and get along with others.

--Parenting Styles 03--

Hello! Here is the section #3. I hope that all of you have gone through section #1 and #2.

Section #3

The Laissez-Faire Parent

- Freely accepts all emotional expression from the child.

- Offers comfort but little guidance on behaviour, to the child experiencing negative feelings.

- Does not teach the child about emotions.

- Is permissive; does not set limits.

- Does not help or teach the child to problem-solve.

- Believes there is little you can do about negative emotions other than ride them out.

- Believes that managing negative emotions is a matter of hydraulics; realise the emotion and the work is done.

Effect on children

- They don't learn to regular their emotions.

- They have trouble concentrating.

- They have problems forming friendships, and getting along with other children.

--Parenting Styles 02--

I hope that you have finished the section #1. Here is the section #2.


Section #2

The Disapproving Parent

-Displays many of the Dismissing Parent's behaviours, but in a more negative way.

-Judges and criticizes the child's emotional expression.

-Is overaware of the need to set limits on their children.

-Emphasizes conformity to good standards of behaviour.

-Reprimands, disciplines, or punishes the child for emotional expression, whether the child is misbehaving or not.

-Believes expressions of negative emotions reflect bad character traits, and should be time-limited, and controlled.

-Believes the child uses negative emotions to manipulate; this belief results in power struggles.

-Believes emotions make people weak; children must be emotionally tough for survival.

-Is concerned with the child's obedience to authority.

Effects on children

-Same as the Dismissing style.

--Parenting Styles 01--

Hi! I just finished one parenting article.I had divided it into 4 sections and would like to share with you...

Section #1

The Dismissing Parent

-Treats a child's feelings as unimportant or trivial.

-Wants the child's negative emotions to disappear quickly.

-May ignore, ridicule or make light of a child's emotions.

-Believes children's feelings are irrational, and therefore don't count.

-May lack awareness of emotions in self and others.

-Feels uncomfortable, fearful, anxious, annoyed, or overwhelmed by child's emotions.

-Fears being out-of-control emotionally.

-Focuses more on how to get over emotions than on the meaning of the emotion itself.

-Sees the child's emotions as a demand to fix things.

-Believes negative emotions mean the child is not well adjusted, and reflects badly on the parents.

-Believes negative emotions are harmful or toxic.

-Minimizes the child's feelings, downplaying the events that led to the emotion.

-Does not problem-solve with the child; believes that the passage of time will resolve most problems.

Effects on the children

-They learn that thrir feelings are wrong, inappropriate, and not valid.

-They may think that there is something inherently wrong with them because of the way they feel.

-They may have difficulties regulating their own emotions.

I feel it's good to describe nowaday's parents, and what do you think.

I hope this article benefit you as it's benefit me a lot....^_^

--Pink LOVEly handbag--

This is a pink lovely handbag, made of beads and pearls.

Where in the middle is a little flower.

For some people, pink color is for little girls. But for me, pink color represents LOVE, sweet, smooth, touching, feminine and also romance. That's why I really love pink color.

Guess what, I do know some guys love pink color madly. Crazy?That's why I had make this little pink lovely handbag. It's just so sweet.

Somebody asked me that actually how long I needed to finish this pink lovely handbag. Actually, I also didn't know, I just understand that when I passionate and ideas come, I really don't care about the time...^_^

Ha, I still remember to cook for my little boy.

Anybody interested, can visit to my shop.

Nature green... bracelet

I grew up in a small village, where surrounded by a lots of green trees...

Every morning, I can feel the nature breath.

The fresh air touch my face. I enjoy with the nature music.

Green, is nature, is should be our earth colour, at least, I think like that...

Now, I live in a big town...

I designed this bracelet, because I have a wish, wish that the person who wear this bracelet can feel the nature, just like what I feel...

I appreciate...^_^

Visit my shop. ^_^

Lovely Purple and White Purse...

Guess what is this.....

Last month, I watched one series of Hong Kong movie, they kept on mentioning about lavender...

I bought one small bottle of lavender oil. Started lavender aromatheraphy for our whole family... it's really make my mind peace and calm.

Last week, I bought myself one bunch of lavender flowers. It's with nice and lovely purple colour...

I started thinking something about purple colour... and here's the lovely purple and white purse...Hope you will like it. ^_^

Features:Height: 10.5cm Length: 15cm





Visit my shop.... ^_^

3S - Shock, Surprise and Satisfy

Today, when my friend, XueWen rearranging her things in her PC. She showed me this photo and laughed. She said, she could imagine how different it's compared before and after of the 'Pink Flower Bracelet'. To her, the orange color flower was not beautiful.

But for me, each handmade item, I had made, they are like my babies. I spent lots of time in designing them, visualizing them, making them. Some time, when it's done,it's really different from my imagination, my visualization. No matter how beautiful or not, they are still my unique creations.

To be honest, I almost forgot that I had made this orange flower before, as I had it restructure it into pink color. But because of this so call, 'experiment' I had made this Pink Flower Bracelet. It a process of 3S - Shock, Surprise and Satisfy.

One of my friend love it so much that she wore it to a dinner and got all the attention. ^_^

The size of the flower is 8cm in diameter.It is suitable for those having 6cm of diameter for her wrist.It also includes 2 small metal rings for you to adjust the size.

May 1st 2007

It's May 1st 2007... Labour Day...

Wishing you Happy Labour Day... ^_^

Also, there something BIG happening on May 1st 2007..

See it yourself >>--> HERE

The Magic of ...My Memory

I have a magic...

A magic that turn things into my Memory...

Just sit tight and watch it...

<<-- Oh! What are these?

The bottles are filled up with beads... as one of my working tools.

<<-- The beads are 'transformed' into square.

<<-- Lots of Squares... Different colors, orange, blue,white,

<<-- The squares are accumulating

<<-- Rearranging of the pieces

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What it becomes?

Here's a hint..

<<-- Guess...

I had this idea of doing this..

because of this -->>

Just click here, to find out the answer.. what it is?

-->> HERE <<--

Cherish pink necklace and bracelet

Cherish pink necklace and bracelet

Today, I just newly listed one stuff in my shop. I name it "Cherish pink necklace and bracelet". There are make up of both pink flower necklace and twin pink and purple flowers bracelet.

For me, actually it's the first time I made flower necklace.

You can see from the photo, how is it?

Do you know who is the model?

Yeah! She is Xue Wen. My photographer, now become my model too!!!

If you like it, please feel free to visit to my shop.

If you would to have them in another colour, just email me at-->> givefromangel@gmail.com ^_^

For those who are interested in either one can email me at giftfromangel@gmail.com

Any comment? I appreciate...